| SifuKatara ( @ 2008-12-18 23:15:00 |
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A Serious Note for Heather and her friends
Enough is enough! I know I’ve made my LJ friends only for the most part. But I felt this entry needed to be public for a very good reason.
As the subject line states, enough is enough! I mean it! I’m tired of
dad4avatar and
avatarangeladjl harassing me and trying to threaten my friends! They seriously need to back off and leave me alone! I’ve never done anything to them! If anything, I’ve done nothing but be nice to them and give them chance after chance to be a good friend. But they’ve not only messed it up every time, they’ve also emotionally hurt me countless times with no regard or remorse for their actions or my feelings. I’ve forgiven them, but I’m still healing. It doesn’t help when they keep messaging me via LJ PM and MSN messenger and adding me every time they get a new LJ! I don’t ask to be added. I just want them to leave me alone. They caused me enough pain and enough trouble!
Heather (
dad4avatar) tells me she wants me out of her life and LJ, but her actions speak otherwise. The reason is, every time she gets a new LJ, she adds me! I don’t ask her to, she just does.
I haven’t spoken to her in a few months and I want to keep it that way. She has hurt me far too much for far too long.
For the full story of what happened and what both of them have put me through, just read my LJ. I’ve documented everything in there. And it’s nothing but the honest truth.
In short, Heather used to be a good friend and a nice person. Our friendship lasted three years and I wouldn’t have traded those years for anything. Heather used to be a good person and a loyal friend, but for the last year, something changed. She became jealous if I made a new friend and she expected me to spend all my time with her. She grew too dependant of me and I couldn’t take it anymore. She turned our once treasured friendship into an ownership. She also lied to me and kept secrets from me. That is not how friends should treat one another. I was honest with her, but she didn’t give me the same honesty in return. I couldn’t handle it anymore and I had to break it off. But she can’t seem to understand we can’t be friends anymore and she won’t take no for an answer. The other reason we broke it off is because she made friends with cammy and I had warned Heather against becoming friends with her. The reason is, cammy had hurt me for three years and I didn’t want her to do the same for Heather. But as I found out, Heather had to learn this lesson for herself. As much as I wanted to protect her, I couldn’t. But instead of listening to me, Heather started down a dangerous road. It wasn’t long before she teamed up with her and they both started causing trouble for me. They spread lies about me, tried to get me banned from
Message boards I was a part of as well as other things. They even stole my info and made a fake LJ with it. I reported them to LJ’s abuse team and the team deleted the journal. But the trouble didn’t end there. These two continue to harass me and I want it to stop! I don’t deserve it, just like the few friends of mine they have targeted don’t deserve it. I’ve forgiven both of them for what they’ve done, but they just keep doing it and it’s not right. They both need to be dealt with.
As for
avatarangeladjl, she has caused me emotional pain for the past three years and I’m tired of it! It needs to stop! I went to LJ abuse team about it, but they couldn’t do anything. They said they can’t do anything about harassment.
I’m here to tell both
dad4avatar (Heather) and
avatarangeladjl (cammy) that if they don’t leave me alone and if they continue to harass me, I’m going to try and take legal action via the net by trying to get their ISP addresses and report them to the LJ abuse team. If that doesn’t work, I’m going to take further legal action. Hopefully, they’ll read this message and take it seriously. If not, I’m sorry, but enough his enough. What they’re doing is wrong and it needs to stop. And if I have to take legal action to do it, then that’s what I’ll do. I don’t want to, but they’re giving me no choice at this point.