SifuKatara ([info]sifukatara) wrote,
@ 2008-12-18 23:15:00
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Current mood: enraged
Current music:Leave, Get Out-Jojo

A Serious Note for Heather and her friends
Enough is enough! I know I’ve made my LJ friends only for the most part. But I felt this entry needed to be public for a very good reason.

As the subject line states, enough is enough! I mean it! I’m tired of [info]dad4avatar and [info]avatarangeladjl harassing me and trying to threaten my friends! They seriously need to back off and leave me alone! I’ve never done anything to them! If anything, I’ve done nothing but be nice to them and give them chance after chance to be a good friend. But they’ve not only messed it up every time, they’ve also emotionally hurt me countless times with no regard or remorse for their actions or my feelings. I’ve forgiven them, but I’m still healing. It doesn’t help when they keep messaging me via LJ PM and MSN messenger and adding me every time they get a new LJ! I don’t ask to be added. I just want them to leave me alone. They caused me enough pain and enough trouble!

Heather ([info]dad4avatar) tells me she wants me out of her life and LJ, but her actions speak otherwise. The reason is, every time she gets a new LJ, she adds me! I don’t ask her to, she just does.

I haven’t spoken to her in a few months and I want to keep it that way. She has hurt me far too much for far too long.

For the full story of what happened and what both of them have put me through, just read my LJ. I’ve documented everything in there. And it’s nothing but the honest truth.

In short, Heather used to be a good friend and a nice person. Our friendship lasted three years and I wouldn’t have traded those years for anything. Heather used to be a good person and a loyal friend, but for the last year, something changed. She became jealous if I made a new friend and she expected me to spend all my time with her. She grew too dependant of me and I couldn’t take it anymore. She turned our once treasured friendship into an ownership. She also lied to me and kept secrets from me. That is not how friends should treat one another. I was honest with her, but she didn’t give me the same honesty in return. I couldn’t handle it anymore and I had to break it off. But she can’t seem to understand we can’t be friends anymore and she won’t take no for an answer. The other reason we broke it off is because she made friends with cammy and I had warned Heather against becoming friends with her. The reason is, cammy had hurt me for three years and I didn’t want her to do the same for Heather. But as I found out, Heather had to learn this lesson for herself. As much as I wanted to protect her, I couldn’t. But instead of listening to me, Heather started down a dangerous road. It wasn’t long before she teamed up with her and they both started causing trouble for me. They spread lies about me, tried to get me banned from
Message boards I was a part of as well as other things. They even stole my info and made a fake LJ with it. I reported them to LJ’s abuse team and the team deleted the journal. But the trouble didn’t end there. These two continue to harass me and I want it to stop! I don’t deserve it, just like the few friends of mine they have targeted don’t deserve it. I’ve forgiven both of them for what they’ve done, but they just keep doing it and it’s not right. They both need to be dealt with.

As for [info]avatarangeladjl, she has caused me emotional pain for the past three years and I’m tired of it! It needs to stop! I went to LJ abuse team about it, but they couldn’t do anything. They said they can’t do anything about harassment.

I’m here to tell both [info]dad4avatar (Heather) and [info]avatarangeladjl (cammy) that if they don’t leave me alone and if they continue to harass me, I’m going to try and take legal action via the net by trying to get their ISP addresses and report them to the LJ abuse team. If that doesn’t work, I’m going to take further legal action. Hopefully, they’ll read this message and take it seriously. If not, I’m sorry, but enough his enough. What they’re doing is wrong and it needs to stop. And if I have to take legal action to do it, then that’s what I’ll do. I don’t want to, but they’re giving me no choice at this point.




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[info]grim_guitarist
2008-12-19 05:09 am UTC (link)
Now that, is how you do it. Good start, and that is the way to go.
Strength to you as well. its good you are able to forgive them. i personally from all i have seen don't have any time for them whatsoever, but only my oppinion. Continue like this and they won't bother you so quicly in a hurry. If they do again then show them your not taking this crap anymore. As i say, good start on showing them.

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[info]sifukatara
2008-12-19 04:18 pm UTC (link)
Aloha Graham! Lauren here. Thanks for your support. But what is the next step? I've already reported them last night yet again.

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[info]dungeonwriter
2008-12-19 05:10 am UTC (link)
I'm glad you see it my way now. They are bullies and they need to be stopped.

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[info]sifukatara
2008-12-19 04:16 pm UTC (link)
Hi Elle. It's not a matter of seeing it anyone's way. It's a matter of doing what's right.

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[info]dungeonwriter
2008-12-19 04:56 pm UTC (link)
But you got upset with me for hoping she goes to prison. Yet, based on my comment below, if you do report her, she can go to prison. So I thought you were agreeing legal action must be taken.

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[info]sifukatara
2008-12-19 08:04 pm UTC (link)
Hi. It does. But hopefully it won't come to that.

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[info]grim_guitarist
2008-12-19 08:22 pm UTC (link)
Surely now its clear that its the only way? They will just keep doing this until it gets more serious, and it should be stamped out now before it really gets out of hand.

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[info]sifukatara
2008-12-19 10:02 pm UTC (link)
I know. But they haven't hurt me physically, not that they could. And since LJ won't really take care of it, I don't know what else to do. But at hte same time, I don't want to take too extreme of a measure. Hopefully this entry, evne though it was true, will scare them off.

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[info]avocado_love
2008-12-19 06:42 am UTC (link)
Do I need to shank a bitch? Let me know. :D

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[info]dungeonwriter
2008-12-19 07:05 am UTC (link)
Hehe, you are seriously very adorably funny! Considering how sadistic you are to characters in your story, I'd not want to be on your bad side.

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[info]grim_guitarist
2008-12-19 10:10 am UTC (link)
Somehow you could find some form of punishment to use on them, but maybe not such a good idea. if its more sadistic than what we'r doing to Anikin then dare i say i like it? Sounds sort of appealing. Oh dear.

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[info]dungeonwriter
2008-12-19 03:44 pm UTC (link)
Hehe, shoving her in a room with Jar Jar Binks? Or is that too cruel?

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[info]sifukatara
2008-12-19 04:24 pm UTC (link)
I meant for this entry to be taken seriously, not made fun of. That's the kind of stuff that won't get any action taken.

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[info]dungeonwriter
2008-12-19 04:53 pm UTC (link)
Don't worry, action is being taken. I was very serious with what I said in my entry, I can't discuss it here but this matter is being taken care of legally and quite seriously.

47 USC s 223. Obscene or harassing telephone calls in the District of Columbia or in interstate or foreign communications.

I'll spare you the legalese, but anyone who 2) knowingly permits any telecommunications facility under his control to be used for any activity prohibited by paragraph (1) with the intent that it be used for such activity, shall be fined under Title 18, or imprisoned not more than two years, or both.

That's why Graham and Avacado and I are laughing. I am sure I had told them about this already and it's just said that she keeps this up, knowing she is very close to getting arrested if she continues.

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[info]scarylady4
2008-12-20 01:49 am UTC (link)
O_O...with your powers of reading legalese and excellent communication skills you will make a phenomenal lawyer...

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[info]dungeonwriter
2008-12-20 01:55 am UTC (link)
Thank you so much!

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[info]grim_guitarist
2008-12-19 08:03 pm UTC (link)
perfect! I think you really have the art of coming up with amaising punishments. Oh i like it so much! it might not be crewel enough, but i think i will quit whilst ahead here.

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[info]dungeonwriter
2008-12-20 01:55 am UTC (link)
Heheh, I'm just a baaaaaaad girl.

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[info]grim_guitarist
2008-12-20 05:00 pm UTC (link)
i can deal with that. Nothing wrong getting down with your bad self sometimes. *smiles evily*

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[info]blazesea
2008-12-19 08:16 am UTC (link)
Hiss Look in the mirror. You hurt others more then they hurt you! Hiss! Hiss! Hiss! You are cruel very cruel

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[info]broadwayjamie
2008-12-20 12:36 am UTC (link)
Hey, if you want to pick on someone, I'm your girl. Leave Lauren alone or deal with me!

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[info]sifukatara
2008-12-20 12:58 am UTC (link)
Hi Jamie! Thanks girl! I really appreciate it! And way to go with the "Double Bubble" reference.
God loves you
Your friend, Lauren

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[info]flowingwaterice
2008-12-19 02:37 pm UTC (link)
Hi there
I am Temperance and I had dealings with Cammy before. She hurt me in the past and Lauren got to make a good punishment for her coming her way and I mean a very good one even if there isn't a real one and got not plans to carry it out. Even if Lauren hates lying, this will work because there is nothing worse for Cammy then knowing what she got coming for her from someone she's crossed but not knowing when it will happen. It has to be very convincing and make Cammy THINK its coming and let her know what it is. Or you could appeal to Cammy's love for her songs and writing and spend time with Cammy or both!

Reverse Psychology works very well also which should also be added into this idea.

Also try to figure out what is worrying Cammy.

This is what I did to stop Cammy from hurting me!

Good Luck

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[info]sifukatara
2008-12-19 03:58 pm UTC (link)
Hi. While I appreciate the advice and suggestions, I don't want anything to do with cammy or Heather anymore. And everything I wrote in that entry was the truth. I wasn't lying about any of it. I try my best to be completely honest in any situation.
God loves you
Lauren

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[info]grim_guitarist
2008-12-19 08:32 pm UTC (link)
Theres something i can't put my finger on.

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[info]sifukatara
2008-12-19 10:00 pm UTC (link)
What do you mean? Can't put your finger on what?

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[info]datajana2007
2008-12-19 08:13 pm UTC (link)
Well said!

People who pull crap like this don't realize that they CAN get in trouble with the law and that it WILL go on their permanent records and haunt them for the rest of their lives.

I hope that they take this warning seriously, or they're in for a world of trouble.

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[info]sifukatara
2008-12-19 10:04 pm UTC (link)
You and me both.

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[info]grim_guitarist
2008-12-19 08:18 pm UTC (link)
To answer your question Lauren, The next step i guess is in some ways up to you, but i thought that would have been clear in this in some ways. The only way for this to really get put to sleep is Legal action. That really will i think stop all of this right away. Also, from what I have heard, and from what i am aware of, they still have everyone they added on their friends list. Not sure why, but thought al the same i should mybe bring that into the open.
Oh, and i thought i should say that my reaction in the conversation last night couldn't have gone any other way. i guess its the thing where this has happened so many times before and with all else going on, I kind of jut had to go for the honesty beats what you want to hear polisy. il support everyone who wants this to all end.

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[info]sifukatara
2008-12-19 09:59 pm UTC (link)
Hi. That's fine. I totally understand. I appreciate you being honest with me. Also, I don't know what I could do legally since Elle is taking care of it.

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[info]grim_guitarist
2008-12-19 10:14 pm UTC (link)
Well, then i know things definatly will work out. it couldn't be in better hands, but keep track of what is going on just incase. Thats the best thing to do.

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[info]sifukatara
2008-12-19 10:44 pm UTC (link)
Hi! Aloha! I'll def do that. That's what I'm planning on doing.

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[info]dungeonwriter
2008-12-20 01:56 am UTC (link)
Awww, Graham, thank you. My hands will have to do, I'd have preferred to be a full lawyer, but that was so sweet!

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[info]grim_guitarist
2008-12-20 05:04 pm UTC (link)
You will be a full lawyer. i just thought it was one of those things that needed said. Don't worry i didn't think you wouldn't be a lawyer or anything. Any time though. Those gals don't know what hit them thats for sure.

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[info]blindguy02
2008-12-19 10:32 pm UTC (link)
Hey Lauren. Sorry you're having trouble. I hope everything calms down sooner than later.

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[info]sifukatara
2008-12-19 10:43 pm UTC (link)
Thanks for hte support. I added you back. Sorry for hte temp delete. I was deleting other people and I must have hit yours by accident. I guess i wasn't paying attention. But I fixed it. I hope to talk to you on MSN soon.
God loves you

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Good Luck
[info]djpaskell
2008-12-20 12:15 am UTC (link)
Hey Lauren, just a quick message of encouragement. I have no idea how any of this sort of bureaucracy works but however it happens, I hope your situation will be resolved soon. Take care and I hope you have a wonderful Christmas!

Darren

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Re: Good Luck
[info]sifukatara
2008-12-20 12:29 am UTC (link)
Hi! Thanks for the kind words! I really appreciate them!

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[info]broadwayjamie
2008-12-20 12:38 am UTC (link)
I'm here for ya, hun!

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[info]scarylady4
2008-12-20 02:00 am UTC (link)
I agree with Grim_guitarist, this is a good start. I know that you would prefer to forgive than to get someone in trouble, but remember that you *have* been wronged and have a right to not be harassed. Cammy & co. have also hurt at least one of your friends, and you are helping each other when you stand together on this issue.
And remember that you are not alone. You have a lot of people behind you on this, people who are supporting you and care for you. :)

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[info]sifukatara
2008-12-20 02:30 am UTC (link)
Hi! Thanks for the support. I really appreciate it. You're right and it means a lot to me to know that.

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[info]grim_guitarist
2008-12-20 05:08 pm UTC (link)
This is entirely true. They didn't hurt me personally as such but when you say things like they have against those your very close to and you know how bad this can turn out then as you say you have to do your bit. + im certainly not backing down. Im glad this is going to get resolved once and for all.

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[info]rock_princess98
2008-12-27 08:05 pm UTC (link)
hi lauren. *hugs you*

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[info]sifukatara
2008-12-27 09:51 pm UTC (link)
Hi! Thank you so much! It's greatly appreciated.

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[info]rock_princess98
2008-12-28 02:29 am UTC (link)
hi lauren. you are wellcome. anytime. you need to talk i am here. hugs.

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[info]blueeyedsuzie
2009-02-04 02:03 am UTC (link)
Hi Lauren,

You actually responded to my message about Ariel and fan fiction. I just stumble into your live journal to check your profile and came across this message. I didn't mean to snoop but I read it and understood how you feel.

The way you are doing this I think is your best option, however I would have well before now reported them to LJ about the abuse. If you've documented everything good, keep it just incase you'll need it later.

My other suggestion is that every time they friend you, you can remove them off you LJ and you can keep them from reading your posts just by changing your settings, but I'm sure you don't want to do that.

BTW, I'm not those who ever they are. You can tell that by my profile and everything else I have, LOL. I just wanted to say, your doing the right thing, and best of luck. If you need to rant to a complete stranger, shoot a message my way.

Also I was wondering if I could friend you since we do have something in common, The Little Mermaid!

Cheers!

Sue

Edited at 2009-02-04 02:04 am UTC

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[info]sifukatara
2009-02-04 02:26 am UTC (link)
Hi there Sue! Aloha! Lauren here. I hope you're doing well. I just read your message. Thanks for all your advice. I really appreciate it. I don't believe in luck, but I appreciate your advice all the same. They haven't bothered me for a few months now, thank the Father. But I have documented everything and I've defrended them every time, while keeping a log of the names they used. Also, I'd be happy to frend you! And once I do, feel free to comment on anything and everything you read in my LJ! Also, if you have MSN Messenger, we can chat about TLM! My SN for it is: littleangel_horselover@hotmail.com
I hope to hear from you soon!
Lauren

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